Philomena Gatti Ruff

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From her youth when she skipped a few grades to her 70th birthday when she bought herself piano lessons, education was her lifelong pursuit. Philomena’s mind stayed sharp, her crosswords completed in ink. Later years found her travelling: cruises, bus trips and excursions back to the homeland of her parents, Italy. And even then, she was learning: defining her roots through genealogy. She came from the wooden spoon school of mothering but loosened up when the grands came along: spilled milk became just spilled milk; Philomena was meant to be a grandmother. Her kids never worried they might see someone else in the same outfit at school: Philomena was a wiz with a sewing machine. Maybe she missed her calling as a designer. A lover of the great crooners, she’d seen Sinatra at the Latin Casino, Elvis at the Spectrum. She darn near rolled a 300 on several occasions. You could hear her cheers from the left field stands, rooting for the Phils. Newborns of family and friends received one of her knitted Christmas stockings; they’re all still in use today.
The young, handsome Edward Ruff would spy the beauty at a Riverside football game. He wasn’t able to get her name on that day, but, lo and behold, she’d stroll into his workplace several days later. Some things were just meant to be. Their bosses knew they’d be a perfect match: Philomena eventually caved. More importantly, he quickly won over her mother. She and the late Edward were blessed with 4 children: Judith, Nancy, the late Edward and Robert (Tracey) and later with grandchildren, RJ, Rileigh and Jared. She was the sister of Effie, Angie, Nick, John, Eva, Ralph and Frank and was the daughter of Angelo and Rosalba Gatti.
Come celebrate 88 great years Saturday 8-10 a.m. at Sweeney Funeral Home, Riverside. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 10:30 a.m. at Good Shepherd Parish, St. Peter’s Church. Interment St. Peter’s Cemetery. Donations to the Parkinson’s Foundation ( or Music and Memory (

3 thoughts on “Philomena Gatti Ruff”

  1. Aunt Phil will be remembered by all for her gift that she brought to every baby shower, a bunny diaper stacker that she created for each of us. You won’t find this special gift on any baby registry! Jeff and I also received a beautiful knitted fisherman afghan for our wedding gift. She continued with the knitted Christmas stockings, personalized with each baby’s name and birthdate. I always admired her style of clothing and how she was a natural at putting an outfit together. She was a woman of many talents! Most of all, I always felt a special bond with Aunt Phil. I turned 50 after my Mom passed away, and Aunt Phil picked out something very special. She presented me with a plate, bowl, and mug hand painted with the design of rosemary, the spice and the word Rosemary on each piece. It was a complete surprise.

  2. Dear Judi, Nancy and Robby,
    Sorry to of your moms passing. What a classy lady with a good heart who was always very nice to me. Living to be 88 is quite a life and it sounds like she enjoyed life.Bev and I have been married for 43 years and enjoy our 4 grandchildren. Blaise and I have e-mailed back and forth after not hearing from him in 25 years after the death of Eddie Walters.I have retired from the glass business now that I am 65. Once again sorry for your loss.
    Love Jim Collins

  3. Dear Judy, Nancy and Robbie,
    I’m sorry to hear of your mom’s passing and I’ll always remember her kind and gentle nature. She’s remembered very fondly and gets to see Uncle Bud again and young Eddie. Just thinking of you all and the good memories over these 40+ years.
    Judy Kulp

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